In this project, which is supported by the Social Science Research Council's Sexuality Fellowship program, I am attempting to make sure everyone's voice is heard on this controversial issue. Thus, I am researching both ex-gays and ex-ex-gays, and I am now looking for people who have accepted their identity as gay or lesbian and now feel that the change they once attempted is not possible, not necessary, or both. If your life journey would fall along these lines, and you would be willing to participate in this research through a one-time "telling of your story" and interview, please .